How To Become Your Best Self

by | Jan 7, 2024 | Personal Development

How To Become Your Best Self

Life is a grand adventure, and on this journey, we all want to become the best version of ourselves. In this article, let’s discuss how to become your best self.

1. Self-Awareness

Self-awareness is the first step toward becoming your best self. Analyze your strengths and weaknesses with an open mind. By knowing who you actually are, you lay the foundation for personal growth.

There’s nothing wrong with accepting your weaknesses. In fact, knowing your weak points is crucial to improve yourself.

2. Set Clear Goals

Goals guide and motivate you on your journey to greatness. Successful people are successful because they set goals to achieve. 

Find your passion and set specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals that align with them. Once you set a goal, break it down into smaller, more manageable ones. When you do this, each milestone you reach will motivate you to work harder to achieve your primary goal. 

3. Develop a Growth Mindset

People with a growth mindset believe that hard and smart work with dedication can help them succeed. They accept challenges instead of avoiding them. They view failure as an opportunity to learn and grow. 

Always remember that working hard and smart is necessary to succeed, and setbacks are part of the learning process. 

4. Continuous Learning

We humans aren’t born knowing everything. Learning is crucial for expanding our knowledge, which is necessary to succeed in life. You can learn by reading books, attending seminars, watching beneficial videos, and seeking advice from mentors. Keep your mind open, and you’ll automatically learn a lot from your experiences. 

5. Learn From Failures

Failure is an inevitable part of a successful journey. Don’t view it as a roadblock. Instead, look at it as an opportunity to learn and grow. Keep in mind that even the most successful people have failed.

6. Nurture Positive Relationships

“You are who you surround yourself with.”

Surround yourself with people who inspire, support, and uplift you to succeed. Positive people motivate you to overcome the difficulties you face during tough times. 

Consider hiring a mentor who has achieved what you aspire to and learn from their knowledge and experiences.

7. Develop Resilience

Resilience is your ability to recover from setbacks. It’s your greatest asset to overcome challenges. Here’s how you can develop resilience:

  • Cultivate a positive mindset
  • Develop problem-solving skills
  • Adaptability 
  • Maintain a sense of purpose
  • Develop emotional intelligence (ability to understand and manage your emotions)

8. Practice Gratitude

Practising gratitude has various benefits, such as:

  • Positive mental health
  • Improved relationships
  • Enhanced emotional well-being
  • Better sleep 

Appreciate the present moment and be grateful for the progress you made along your journey. Gratitude opens your heart and fuels your drive to achieve even more. It’s also necessary to be grateful to others for the good they do for you. 

9. Visualize 

Visualization refers to creating a mental image of what you want to become. It helps your subconscious mind align with your goals, making you turn them into reality. 

Athletes visualize their routines, which has proven to improve actual performance by increasing muscle memory, focus, and coordination.

10. Maintain a Healthy Lifestyle

In the journey to becoming your best self, don’t forget about your physical and mental well-being. Get enough sleep, eat healthy, and stay hydrated. Besides these, spend an hour each day for exercise. A brisk walk or jogging does the job. 


Becoming your best self is a gradual process that requires dedication and acceptance. By implementing these principles in your life, you’ll realise your true potential, besides inspiring others on their journeys. Each step you take moves you closer to success.  

A mentor can boost your success journey. If you need a helping hand to succeed in life, get in touch with Ken. With over 30 years of experience, Ken can help you define your vision, realize your potential, and accelerate your pace of success.

Ken D Foster is a best-selling author, transformational leader, business strategist, and producer of the Voices of Courage Show, syndicated in 185 countries.

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